Sunday, August 03, 2008

He's BACK!!...And can hopefully post on a regular basis.

So, I went to a Dave Matthews/Willie Nelson concert on Friday at Louisville Slugger Field. The last time I saw Dave and his band was in 2006 at Bonnaroo. Adam and I were actually really close to the stage for the concert (Alison Kraus & Union Station and The Allman Brothers Band both performed on that same stage and we spent the whole day there). Unfortunately, the people who go to DMB concerts are idiots and I hated it and so we bounced before the set was complete. A co-worker had an extra ticket, and after assuring me that it was an assigned seat I decided to take her up on her offer and check it out. It was far from the greatest concert I've ever seen, but it wasn't that bad. I had a good time. Plus, I finally got to hear Two Step in all its live glory (which was my only regret for leaving the Bonnaroo show early).

What I got to thinking about during the show is the type of people that DMB fans are. I would say that 95% of college students are DMB fans their freshman year. In fact, I would say the average amount of time spent on the Earth for a DMB fanatic is 18.2 years (obviously not including time spent in the womb, obviously). What makes 18 years the optimal age for DMB fans? I think it is the the fact that DMB has some very "pop" (very easily played on the radio) cd's but they get a little crazy with it at their shows. So, in effect, he is the introductory jam band. And in late high school when kids are trying to rebel from their parents they try to embrace the whole "jam" scene (even though their parents were going to "jam"Allman Brothers Band concert back in the 70's). Then when they get to college and realize that all the other freshman LOVE Dave Matthews, they love him even harder. Because really, who doesn't want to fit in. Then later they realize that it's alright to be who they want to be and go there separate ways from DMB, or they join a frat and keeping on fighting the good fight for DMB.

It also leads me to a further realization, and one that we often debate at ultimate practice (with our myriad of musical tastes). You can't really account for taste. You can't blame "really" someone for the there musical tastes if they truly like the music (this of course does not apply to people to like a band/type of music because someone else does). I know that Sara is an idiot for thinking that Ray Lamontagne's new cd (coming out this fall) will be better than The Cardinals (no longer Ryan Adams & The Cardinals) new cd (also coming out this fall). I know that Jacob is an idiot for thinking Bright Eyes is even halfway talented and not just a boring songwriter from Nebraska. I know that Hunt is an idiot for even beginning to like worship bands. And, I know that most of the country music listening population are idiots for pretending that even one female country music singer is talented. But see, I actually don't know any of that. Because if Ray Lamontagne and Conner Oberst and David Crowder and Taylor Swift make you go to a happy place, who am I to blame you. That's your personal preference. I can dig it. That doesn't mean I'm going to stop telling you you listen to terrible music though. I'm just going to only half mean it.

Song Recommendation - Gimme Shelter by The Rolling Stones

5 comments:

Katie said...

1. Your a dork but i love you cause you are my brother
2. David Crowder is awesome, and your gay if you don't like worship music, not to mention a heathen...

Adam said...

Ouch Nick...

Katie, that statement was funny and yet confusing... :)

Bob Caswell said...

Nice, Nick is back. I missed the whole DMB bandwagon. I mean, they had some semi-catchy stuff, but I didn't think it had anything on the wide selection of other semi-catchy stuff out there.

By the way, Nick, I sold my site TechConsumer and now blog at bobcaswell.com (I'm vain that way).

Miss O. said...

Since you enjoy bashing Ray, I'll find someone else to take your 2nd row, spitting distance seat. Suck a meat Nick Haywood.

Nick Haywood said...

Now, now. Everyone needs to get their panties out of a bunch. This is exactly the point to be made. I know there is music of mine that you don't like. That's ok. I can deal with it. I also know you're an idiot.

Bob, nice job on the sell. If I were you, I would have went with Bobcaswell.bobspot.com. Get it. Bobspot. Not blogspot. That stuff is hilarious.